koi pyaar kare toh tumse kare,
tum jaise ho waise kare,
koi tumhe badal kar pyaar kare,
toh woh pyaar nahi, sauda kare
aur sahiba, pyaar mein sauda nahi hota.....

These are the only lines i remember from the forgettable but lonnggg crap movie "mohabbatein"! i think its more than just a dialogue. If its love then there cannot be a bargain there, If its love then there cannot be dictatorship, if its love then there cannot be dishonesty. Freedom to be oneself , trust and honesty is the base of love and these lines just say that. i read a quote somewhere on similar lines
" Let the world know you as you are, not as you think you should be,because sooner or later,if you're posing,you'll forget the pose and then where are you ?' - Fanny Brice

Am i in love? :)

the good, the bad and the seasons!

Watched two movies today, and i guess thats riding my mind into writing this crap right now. First was maniratnam's latest flick -Raavan (Tamil). And the second was shyama Prasads -Ritu (Malayalam). While the first one deals with the good and the bad and different views of the the subjects the other one shows how relations and people change with times ...seasons. I felt both are essentially showing us about people in our lives. how we see them, how they see us.

My take on raavan and ritu are 4/5, cause i relate to the stories ...the characters.
Sometimes life tells you that there a good in every bad- its only the way you see it has to change. Also the other way round. We humans are ruled by ego and desire which makes them do certain things at some stupid moments of time and then we run around the circumstances that it creates trying to master the plan and succeed in our own ways. crazy!
When my friend asked me to watch this movie Ritu, i wondered why...but now i know. :) I find it hard to pen what i feel now sitting back and thinking how true it is that with changing times...like seasons ...people change and so do relations , friendship. everything! :)
I guess i am in my wierdest best tonight after a long time. winding up to clear my thoughts again...to find the words...the wisdom.
signing off...